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blueberry2010 · Aug 1, 2010, 10:17 PM

Well me and my ex have been together for about a year I was in 11 grade and he was in 12. I knew he really did love me because his mom would tell me and so would my mom, also because he would get sensative with me and really really care about me,and he would want to talk to me every minute if we spended a long time without talking he would cry or find a way to talk to me. I broke up with him about 2 months ago because we were going to go our seprate ways. We stopped talking to each other for about a month and then I decided to text him like about a week ago I mentioned this one guy and he told me to stop and I told him if he had feelings for me and he said no, so then I mentioned the guys name and he said a rude comment without him knowing that person and then I told him you like me and he started getting mad saying that he didn't, also he still gets worried about me but now sometimes he doesn't talk to me for hours wich he never used to do, and I think 2 months is a little bit of time for him to get over me well really about 1 month in a half... heeellllllllllllllllllllppppppppp please... I still love him

Alty · Aug 2, 2010, 12:34 AM

Sounds like he decided to move on, was doing no contact, but you forced contact with him and he's not too pleased about it, doesn't know how to tell you he doesn't want to talk right now.

The fact is, you broke up with him. I'm sure it hurt very badly, and now all of a sudden, you've changed your mind.

How is he supposed to feel about that? You're playing with his emotions.

Go to no contact, let the poor guy heal and move on.

talaniman · Aug 2, 2010, 08:25 AM

For gosh sakes leave the guy alone to get over his hurt.

I think its very selfish and uncaring, and a darn shame you call a guy who you hurt, and talk about ANOTHER guy. That was tacky, and inconsiderate of you.

That's not showing care or love, that's plain CRUEL. Leave him alone.

positiveparent · Aug 2, 2010, 10:05 AM

Your ex b/f has moved on the relationship ended and he's got over it.

Now you should do the same whatever you had with him once is now over done and finished, any feelings he may have had for you are in the past, and that's all there is to it.

Leave him alone move on with your own life, and try not to look for other people to validate your sense of worth.

You won't find reassurances of yourself by looking to others for them or in the past. Its gone move on and leave it in the past...

blueberry2010 · Aug 2, 2010, 01:14 PM

Originally Posted by talaniman

For gosh sakes leave the guy alone to get over his hurt.

I think its very selfish and uncaring, and a darn shame you call a guy who you hurt, and talk about ANOTHER guy. That was tacky, and inconsiderate of you.

Thats not showing care or love, thats plain CRUEL. Leave him alone.

Originally Posted by positiveparent

Your ex b/f has moved on the relationship ended and hes got over it.

Now you should do the same whatever you had with him once is now over done and finished, any feelings he may have had for you are in the past, and thats all there is to it.

Leave him alone move on with your own life, and try not to look for other people to validate your sense of worth.

You wont find reassurances of yourself by looking to others for them or in the past. Its gone move on and leave it in the past...

Originally Posted by Altenweg

Sounds like he decided to move on, was doing no contact, but you forced contact with him and he's not too pleased about it, doesn't know how to tell you he doesn't want to talk right now.

The fact is, you broke up with him. I'm sure it hurt very badly, and now all of a sudden, you've changed your mind.

How is he supposed to feel about that? You're playing with his emotions.

Go to no contact, let the poor guy heal and move on.

Hmmmmm well so you guys won't get the wrong idea, I broke up with him because he moved to another state to go to college, I wasn't talking about another guy we were messing aroung with each other and he would ask me questains so I just MENTIONED a guys name and all of a sudden he would get mad so instead of saying names I just said that person and he wouldn't like it he also said it would be OK if I mentioned a guy but not talk about him so later on I mentioned a guy and he got mad so there I'm not playing with his emotions... right after I broke up with him he was screaming at me and making me feel bad so I stopped talking to him for some time

positiveparent · Aug 2, 2010, 01:32 PM

OP no ones said anything about you having another guy, you state in your first post that you broke up with him 2 months ago or thereabouts, and you asked did we think he still cared about you, we gave you advice according to your question, if it wasn't what you wanted to hear fine ignore it. You asked we answered.

Your ex appears to have moved you, you should now be doing the same.

No matter why you and he broke up , you did and that's it, he's moved on.

blueberry2010 · Aug 2, 2010, 01:44 PM

Originally Posted by positiveparent

OP no ones said anything about you having another guy, you state in your first post that you broke up with him 2 months ago or thereabouts, and you asked did we think he still cared about you, we gave you advice according to your question, if it wasnt what you wanted to hear fine ignore it. you asked we answered.

Your ex appears to have moved you, you should now be doing the same.

No matter why you and he broke up , you did and thats it, hes moved on.

Nope I'm fine with what you guys answered, and that you guys are being honest but the fact that you guys are telling me that I was playing with his emotions is soooooo wrong

positiveparent · Aug 2, 2010, 01:50 PM

Originally Posted by blueberry2010

nope im fine with what you guys answered, and that you guys are being honest but the fact that you guys are telling me that i was playing with his emotions is soooooo wrong

I didn't at anytime accuse you of playing with his emotions I merely said he's moved on.

blueberry2010 · Aug 2, 2010, 02:23 PM

Yeah I know but some other user were so that's why I wrote the first quote but it wasn't for you I'm new to this so I don't know what I'm doing sorry about that... well since you've been honest my ex wants to meet me at some park should I not go?

positiveparent · Aug 2, 2010, 02:43 PM

Originally Posted by blueberry2010

yeah i know but some other user were so thats why i wrote the first quote but it wasnt for you im new to this so i dont know what im doing sorry about that....well since you've been honest my ex wants to meet me at some park should i not go?

If you want to go meet him then do so, its entirely up to you, Im not you and so I don't know your ex like you do, but if you are hoping to get back with him then I say go and tell him, that you would like to give it another try and see what he says to that.

Good Luck and come back here and let us know how it all goes if you go meet him, I think you should it'll be a good way of finding out what he wants, and I would think he is thinking along lines of getting back with you, or why would he want to meet you.

So yes go for it. Ive got my fingers x`d for you...

blueberry2010 · Aug 2, 2010, 02:47 PM

Thank you :)

positiveparent · Aug 2, 2010, 02:49 PM

Originally Posted by blueberry2010

thank you :)

You're Welcome and do come back because I would love to know how it goes for you. Good Luck...

talaniman · Aug 2, 2010, 05:06 PM

Sorry if I misunderstood what you wrote, but you broke up with him, so if you think he deserves another chance, or want to talk it over with him, go ahead.