[chaotic]

My boyfriend of over a year has just left to University for 4 years. We were in a great relationship, and had it not been for his parents moving we would probubly still be together. He is really far away and I think I may only see him maybe once a year. We sort of have plans to travel in a year if none of us find another partner, but I don't know what to do. Do I try and mend my broken heart for him, and get over him forever, or should I trust that everything may go well and wait for him to finish and then we could possibly continue where we left off. It just kills me that our relationship got ruined while it was still running well. And I'm finding it really hard to deal with. I don't want to give up on it, but I don't want to wait around for something that may not ever happen. Any advice would be greatly appreciated Thanks

[talaniman]

Don't wait. Now is the time that you do your thing, and enjoy pursuing all the options, and opportunities, that you have. In 4 years you will know what's going on, but in the meantime, explore your world without him, and have no regrets about being happy, enjoying yourself, and doing things that make you better.

[kctiger]

This is the time now to do whatever you want and explore things that may never happen again. The only thing you shouldn't do is wait for anything!! You absorb every opportunity you get and you leave no regrets behind. Waiting will surely be cause for regret.

[sgtigereye]

I think that him moving away was a step he took for himself, so you need to take a step for yourself. I am sure you had something wonderful but for now move on. If you two were really meant to be, then eventually you will come together again. But for now get to know yourself and meet other people. You might learn something and realize that guy really wasn't what you wanted, or maybe he was really perfect for you and u can make it work in the future.