[PaulLiz]

Just wanting to Understand my Ex Girlfriend We have one son and have been off and on for the last four years because of her controlling way's after she had our son she called Children Aid Society on us and made sure I could not see our son but I still made sure I got my little one everything he needed
Back last summer she asked me to go over to her place because our son was sick so I did from there on in she tired to say we were going back out and started asking me to buy her a ring {WHICH I DID NOT DO} it went on for about 3 months... back in Oct she told me and my friends that if I went back over there to visit my son that Children Aid Society was going to remove him Which I later found out was not true .
From Oct to now she has tired to get my friends to turn there backs on me
Went out on a date with a friend well my son was in the Hosptial
She removed me as a friend on Facebook but made sure her friends sent me very nasty emails
I made a new Facebook account and she found me on there and out of the blue sent me an note asking us to be friends again and that she Loved me but does not love me anymore .
I turn her friends request down
I understand that she is maybe trying to play me..
Does this also mean she still has feelings for me ?

[Devorameira]

I'm not sure how she's feeling, but her behavior is actually scary. I would be documenting everything that goes on.

I would avoid her at all costs or she's going to set you up and get you into more trouble than you'll ever be able to get out of.

My advice is for you to see an attorney and let him know everything she's done. Then have him work to clear your name with the Children Aid Society and get legal visitation, preferably custody, of your son.

[talaniman]

They say that there is a thin line between love, and hate, and she seems to jump back, and forth quite often.

So yes, she loves your funky draws, and probably die for you, but tomorrow she will hate your guts, and hurt you any way she can.

You picked her though to be your baby mama, but she is poison to the sane mind.

[PaulLiz]

I have documenting everything and pic to show everything.. I have apply for custody of my son but she will not let me see any Hosptial reports and wants to keep things out of court and has try very hard... Its to the point where I have hired a Civil Litigation Lawyer because of her lies that she has told the CAS and well as the upper law society of canada... and sense then she has sent me an email asking to be friends... as of one hour ago I went to the store right beside my place only to see her there.. this is the first time she has been over here Sense Oct of last year.. what's up with that

[talaniman]

Why didn't you ask her? She is not your friend.

[PaulLiz]

Hi everyone
I need some help to understand my ex once again : over the last four years me and my ex have been on and off, We have one son together who is turning two soon.
I have not been over to her house since Oct of last year because some of the things she was doing and saying to me and my friends.
From Oct until Feb there was no contact with her in anyway, She sent me a message On Facebook asking to be "FRIEND"S" I told her friends pick up the phone and call one another at time they also add them to Facebook & MSN Messenger, She got really upset when I said if you can't do that then we can not be friends.so from Feb Until June 9 there was no contact once again and then I got a email from her asking me not to post any picture of our son up as my display pic on Facebook which she was doing as well.
Now I found out that most of my friends that were on my Facebook she has added as friends on her Facebook.
I am not saying I am perfect in all of this because there was a lot that I did to make this relationship not work but she is putting all the blame on me for it,
I have also had some wired Dreams about her so I know there are things that need to get resolved before I can move on... Half of me wants to move on and the other half wants to hold onto something that is not there..
My question what is she up too and what can I expect..

[talaniman]

I am not familiar with the Canadian laws, but off hand she may be afraid of giving you any custody or lose any control she has over you. Unfortunately, men have as many rights regarding custody, and responsibility, as females do, when it comes to be a parent. How is that court thing gong?

That may be your key to understanding anything regarding her. She may be willing to use anything, even your friends against you, in a court of law. If your still pressing her, legally. Are you?

[jmjoseph]

She wants you back because you are "old reliable". You left her for a reason, right? Remember that fact. It's like getting milk out of the fridge, finding out that it's soured, and putting it back, saying " HMMM, maybe it'll be OK next month".

She's the sour milk. You're the guy considering drinking it.

Carry on.

[PaulLiz]

Yeah We are still In court. I believe she is trying to use anything and everything to control me... she got a couple of my friends to turn there back on me which I am okay with because I don't need people like that in my life...