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    AlysaM123 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 6, 2010, 11:18 AM
    Relationships
    OK... when you and your other one has the ups and downs but you don't think its not going to last what should you do...
    They way my other is he doesn't say I love you when we hag up on the phone and my other is so ignorant to me what should I do should I stay and work it out or should I move on... mind you Ive been with my other for about 3 years now
    Signed undecided
    ;(
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    I wish Posts: 5,296, Reputation: 2030
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    Apr 6, 2010, 12:19 PM

    Two choices:

    1) You continue to try to work things out by putting in the necessary effort. Effective communication and by taking proactive approach in problem solving. Focus on progress in your efforts.

    2) Quit beating a dead horse. If there's no progress in your efforts, then it's better to go your separate ways. Otherwise, you're just dragging out the inevitable break up anyway.
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    Apr 6, 2010, 07:36 PM

    Talk to your other and tell him how you feel. If you feel that it didn't get you anywhere, then call it quits
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    Apr 6, 2010, 09:56 PM

    You end it, and go your merry way.

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