[GGR331]

Breakup long term relationship? But she has done nothing wrong...

Im 27 years old now and I've been with my girl friend since I was 18, so we been together 9yrs. She loves me so much and I love her , she is a great person and a good girlfriend, she does so much for me, and overall we have a good relationship, we know each other so well and that a good feling to have to know that you have someone you know understands you. We are best friends. BUT.. I don't know why I been feeling like ending the relationship, it just feels like maybe we are not meant to be, its been a very loving relationship but not much excitement, a lot of routine, a lot different interest, maybe we just grew apart. I can't help but feel like I want ot venture out and do things I never done met new people maybe ill find the right person, but what if she is the right person, I'm so confused. I feel like I'm betraying her by thinking this way but I don't want to ignore my feelings... I need help..

[Kevin86]

Be honest to her, and tell her about your feelings. Hopefully you guys can work it out, if not, give up the relation, and move on.

Good luck!

[kjsunj]

I opinion is if you are comfortable with your girlfriend is it is kind of love... I don't know why love has to be burn like hug fire.. love is love... I love my family but they don't make butterfly in my stomach.. I don't know what to say but some mistakes you made in your life, you have to pay for it and regret it rest of your life..

http://www.links2love.com/science_of_love_types.htm


Here is what I found... my ex was my best friend and she kept saying you eventually want to know what other girls like.. because she is 8yr older than me.. but I didn't want to know other girls.. I was happy with what I had.. so make some decision and I hope you won't regret it..

[BrandonGT]

It sounds like this girl is all you've ever known, and you're afraid that you're missing something exciting. I know the feeling. I really think you need to have an honest discussion... A girl (even one you've known a long time) can surprise you, she might want to do some exploring as well. Even if she doesn't, it's not fair to either of you to contiue and ignore those "what-ifs".

[Ann_123]

You say you love her and been with her for so many years. She makes you happy sure you guys would have had fights too but sorted it out. So why not talk to her and tell her what you feel you guys can make your love more interesting. After so many year with a girl perfect and you walk out did you think of what is going to happen to her. Be a man and tell your feeling she is not going to eat you up. So you want to meet other girls and you expect her to sit and wait for you. If she makes the first move and tell you the same how would you think of her.