They closed it because everything had already been said, all the advice already given. If you read back, I said pages ago that I think it should be closed because all you were doing is coming back to tell us the same thing over and over again. You weren't listening to the advice, you were using the thread as you own personal journal. There are better ways to do that. Having said that, I didn't request it be closed so I'm only guessing that's the reason.
The purpose of a thread such as yours is to get support to stick to NC, it's not a place for you to write your dating autobiography. I've never seen a relationship thread go on as long as yours and get absolutely nowhere, just rehashing the same thing over and over again.
What do you do? Stick around and help others going through the same thing you're going through. Maybe by being a counselor instead of a victim you'll get further in your recovery of this.
Also, all the advice, all the help you need, it's already in those 84 pages. There's nothing more anyone can say or do, it's already been said and done. Should we really spend another 84 pages saying all the things we've already said? There's no need to keep repeating our advice, you just have to re-read what's already been written and maybe that's the best thing for you.
There are other sources of help for you, the stickies that were written about No Contact and other threads about situations the same as yours.
It's time to move on Emo, not only with your life, but with your thread. It's gone on too long with absolutely no progress.
If you want to write about your past experiences in your relationship, buy a journal. Then you can write everything down, get it out of your system.
You still have support, of course you do, but enough is enough where that thread is concerned. Repeating advice and never having it sink in, that's a waste of everyone's time.
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