[cmbc]

I am currently a deployed soldier.my girlfriend and I argue every other day and I believe we argue due to stress now she needs time to thimk what should I do?

[Cat1864]

Give her time. Arguing is not helping either one of you deal with the stress. You might try suggesting that she join a support group for 'families' of deployed soldiers. Knowing that she isn't alone may help make it easier to deal with the stress.

[I wish]

Leave each other alone until these high flying emotions have settled down. Give each other space to calm down and to gain some perspective before you confront each other, so that you don't blow up at each other again.

[inertia]

How long have you been deployed?
How long have you been dating?
How old are the two of you?
What exactly are you fighting about?

[Cat1864]

Inertia, please follow the guidelines for using the agree/disagree button.

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