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    cameron 10 Posts: 26, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 11, 2009, 12:56 PM
    Should ex boyfriend be emailing
    Ex started emailing, she's never told him we are back together. She doesn't want to hurt his feelings We are getting married inn aug.I don't want any surprises.Should I press her
    To tell him to stop?
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    artlady Posts: 4,208, Reputation: 1477
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:04 PM

    If it is bothering you ,you most certainly should tell her.
    He also needs to be told that you are getting married.
    If a friendship between them is going to come between you or cause you concern ,you need to speak up and ask for it to stop.
    You are a priority now and not a friendship with an ex.
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:19 PM

    It sounds like she wants to keep ex on the side. If she really loves you and don't want to hurt her ex further, than she needs to tell her ex that she is getting married to you today.
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:20 PM

    I find it disturbing that your finance isn't telling her ex boyfriend, who has been emailing her that she's about to get married with you. It's as if she's leading him on and keeping him as a backup plan.

    Marriage is a huge commitment and it's unfair to you to have such lingering doubts hanging around.

    You should definitely confront your fiancé about your concerns. Communication is key.
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:28 PM

    If there is doubt inher mind should I get out
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:50 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cameron 10 View Post
    If there is doubt inher mind should I get out
    If she is having doubts I certainly would reconsider marriage.
    That is a huge undertaking and one should never enter into it with any doubts!
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    Nov 11, 2009, 01:54 PM

    YES you should... trust me man- I got burned bad with something similar... if she truly loved you she wouldn't say 1 word to him.
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