[annemarie22]

Moved to ite own thread

I've been with my boyfriend FOUR years, we broke up for a month last year and then he came back to me, promising me this was it. I am also due to finish uni in May and suggested it to give him plenty of time to think of it and he says he has 'no need and is not compelled' to want to live with me. I always attrinuted this to having divored parents, n he says I love him I'll wait and questions why I can't be content? I feel so hurt and then when I ask him to explain I feel worse as it confirms his lack of will to be with me long term. I love him, I'd wait forever if there was some hope it could happen? But he says he doesn't want to put pressure on us?

[Romefalls19]

You know what his stance on this is, now you know what is on the table. You have two offers, stick it out with him and possibly never commit or you take YOUR life into YOUR hands and you do what's in the best interest of you and YOUR career

[talaniman]

Waiting for someone to change is a perfect waste of time. What if he never changes? Do your own thing and live the life you want without him. If he changes his mind and wants what you want, then fine.

Its your life, don't let any one ruin it.