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    rose246 Posts: 33, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 25, 2009, 12:41 PM
    I want to get back with my ex
    OK.I was in a relationship with this amazing man.he is sweet,caring,richetc,and everything.but I was kind of shallow because he is an average looking mananyway,we had a minor problem and I made a huge deal out of it,and broke up with him,but we are still friends now.and I now realize what a huge mistake that was and I want him back.and the thing is,he didn't believe that relationships can work out,and didn't date many women before me,so when I broke up with him,he told me that I proved his point and that he is not relationship material,and that he will not be with another woman again.please help me
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    redhed35 Posts: 4,221, Reputation: 1910
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    Sep 25, 2009, 12:50 PM

    Does this minor problem still exist?

    What's different for you now?

    The thing is,you can't make someone want you,they do,or they don't..

    If he did not believe the relationship was not going to work the first time around,what's changed to make him think it will again?

    Perhaps you should chaulk this up one to experience,and not to be shallow the next time.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Sep 25, 2009, 01:53 PM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...er-346376.html

    Is this the same guy? In light of this post
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ps-391899.html

    Have you made the changes that you needed to? Have you been working on your issues??

    Going back to an ex you have never parted from may not be a good idea unless the old reasons you broke up about have been resolved. Another thing is have you really healed from this break up?

    Sometimes its better to stay friends and enjoy each other than ruin that friendship because you think its more. Tired of being alone again??
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