[BobbyVandeyar]

If a girl is stubborn to come off the phone with you, lets say if you called her, and woke her up, and told her go back to sleep, but refusing, and then changing the subject to make you talk, does that mean she likes you?

[friend4u178]

Possibly

Why don't you ask her?

[BobbyVandeyar]

Eh, we been kind of on and off the talking thing because were both busy with school, work, etc. Used to talk a lot. But yeah just enjoying the friend stuff and seeing where it goes.

[friend4u178]

Well that's good , if she wants to keep talking to you she obviously likes you to some degree. Just take it easy and enjoy it.

[talaniman]

If she rather talk to you than sleep, that's not a bad sign, but asking her how she feels would get you a better answer.

[I wish]

You've got three choices:

1) Keep talking to her and getting to know her better. But if you do this, stop over-analyizing all these littles details. Focus on the conversations and not the signs.

2) Tell her how you feel and see how she responds.

3) Don't do anything at all and just find someone else.

If you don't feel comfortable enough, go with 1). If you're curious about how she feels about you, then go with 2).

[BobbyVandeyar]

I actually went on a date with her today, just out to get some lunch. It was great, enjoyed it a lot. Like you guys said I shouldn't overthink so much, however I was reading through other threads on here. Why is it that we overthink so much when it comes to finding relationships? Like for me I can't really think of any reason other than me pursuing that desire for a real girl to just spend time with.