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jagler · May 2, 2009, 10:24 AM

OK me and my girldfriend lets call her liz... weve been good friends since she was a freshman and we started dating the following year... by the way she was 15 and I was 18when we started dating but anyway we were dating for about 5 monthes and than she wanted to date this other guy so I said OK fine but we still stayed friends and they only dated for a month... soon after that we got back together... we stayed together for about 3 months... and than she met this guy in lets say New York while she was visiting family... she wanted to breakup again because she felt we weren't technically together because my mom has a problem with us being together... becuz of the age... well at this point I'm 19 and she's 16... so I said OK... fine... so she dated this guy and at first we didn't talk for a couple of weeks.. but than we started talking... and her and this guy dated for about 6 months but afterawhile things went bad and they ended it... well we got back together again and she promised that she would never hurt me again and that she wouldn't even leave I even bought her a promise ring... so we have been together for about 4 monthes now but she started to get feelings for this guy and before that we were fighting a lot... she said she needed time to herself so she said she didn't want to c me or talk to me for two weeks and during that time she's been working on a prom dress at a friends house where her friends brother is the guy she likes but he is only 13... I want to fix things... because I do love her and ik she loves me... shes just had a bad past... and I don't know what to do... she found out I was smoking during the 6 monthes she dated the other guy and she was furious... I told her id quit but I didn't and later when we got back together I told her I quit when we had got back together she was mad because id lied to her... wat should I do...

chuff · May 2, 2009, 10:31 AM

I read lets say half of that, and got all I needed. You're a back up plan. She keeps you around for when all the other guys don't work out, you'll always be there. She doesn't like you or respect you. She's a user.

talaniman · May 2, 2009, 12:47 PM

You can't fix things between a man and a child! Get some one your own age, as this kid is playing your old a$$ like a fiddle, and all you say is

So I said OK... fine...

Please tell me you have adult things to do. Let her play her games with kids her own age.

Fr_Chuck · May 2, 2009, 02:18 PM

Yes, she is playing Jr High dating games and he somehow can't see over it.