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    Apr 22, 2009, 08:56 PM
    How do I get the best soulmate?
    Hi 2 everyone. I'm 22 now but ever since I never been experience relationship with opposite sex I don't why?when I was high school life no guys court me I'm not saying that I'm so bad girl or ugly I'm just only simple lady. my question is how do I get the soulmate or the best boyfriend.. hehehhe thnks 2 all GOdbless
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:31 PM

    Just be yourself, and do the things that makes you happy. Eventually you meet someone.
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:38 PM

    There are many guys that love simplicity!

    Keep doing the things you love and you will find someone.
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:40 PM

    The easiest way to find a soul mate, in my opinion, is to not try too hard to find one. Often women are so busy looking for the perfect guy that it just stresses them out and makes it harder for them to see what's right in front of them.

    Concentrate on just being who you are and finding friends. No matter how much heat and chemistry a couple may have friendship and trust is the true basis for lasting romance.

    Respect yourself, do not let any guy pressure you into doing anything that you don't want to do or acting like something other then who you are.

    DO NOT DATE A TAKEN MAN, too many ladies fall for cheating losers and if any man would cheat on his other then he would cheat on you to!
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:44 PM

    Being patient. Not rushing. Get involved in different groups your interested in. There is no rush at 22. I know you might think it would be really good to have that now. I guarantee your better off waiting for another 5 years down the road. Maybe...
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    Apr 23, 2009, 10:45 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by honey Lou View Post
    hi 2 everyone.,im 22 now but ever since i never been experience relationship with opposite sex i dont why?when i was high school life no guys court me im not saying that im so bad girl or ugly im just only simple lady.,my question is how do i get the soulmate or the best bf..,hehehhe thnks 2 all GOdbless
    That depends I geuss, what do you think your soul mate would look like, Their personality, houmour, fav movies food sport books and so on. How do you picture your soul mate?

    As the others say above, be yourself and you'll find your soul mate. How to be yourself? Get to know yourself.

    How can you know your soul mate if you don't know yourself?
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    Apr 24, 2009, 12:36 AM
    I just wanted to add that we 'don't GET a soul mate'.

    We attract people because they reflect parts of ourselves - good and bad.

    Don't delude yourself into thinking that a 'soul mate' will solve all your problems, fulfill your every desire, make life perfect. It just ain't so.

    Try and live a life where you solve your own problems, fulfill your own desires and make it as perfect as it can be. Don't expect another person to do this for you.

    Be active, involved, curious, interesting and content. Then you may well attract the best person into your life.

    Live your life, don't wait for someone to live it with you.
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    Apr 24, 2009, 12:47 AM
    The best way to find a soulmate is to know your own soul. Sometimes our wants and needs are not reflective of who we really are. For many years I wanted to find my prince charming. I thought he would be tall, dark and handsome, so that's where I started looking. I found lots of jerks, and thought "what am I doing wrong?" I took a step back, and did some soul searching. I am currently with a guy that does not fit the image that I wanted for myself. I was searching from the outside, but a soulmate is found from the inside.
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