[deimos]

My girl has been in serious relationship with me for almost 2 years. She was genuinely interested in me all through these 2 years. She was the one who forced me to love her.. It so happened that one day her parents came to know about this relationship. Since I belonged to another religion, naturally they opposed. The very next day,she stopped this relationship forever. She hasn't called me up ever since. I have to mention that in Indian culture, parents decision is considered with great importance. We were involved physically too. I don't seem to understand why she did this to me. When in the relationship, I asked her several times if she would come out of her house, if her parents didn't accept and she said YES. I gave her the liberty to discuss things with her parents and now she obeys them. She's no longer in contact with me. It's been almost an year and I'm just not able to get over her. I loved her with all my heart. I gave her everything, helped her in every difficulty.. I'm feeling very low because I'm an emotional person who has been dreaming to spend the rest of my life with her. Now that she has left, I'm unable to get over her. She hasn't even called once to know how I am after the incident. I have always been true and genuine to her. I wouldn't expect another girl to come into my life. Please suggest me what I should be doing.All in a sudden she left me even without saying any word. Now she walks as if she knows nothing. She now looks happier than ever. Now she says.. she don't have time for me.. I wonder how girls can change like this. I don't know what happened to her promises. She even don't want to hear what's happening on my side.. I am almost dead now... I loved her truly from my heart.. and still I care for her more than anyone.. I am ready to accept her if she returns now.. what will I do? Why can't she think about the time we spent together... will god ever forgive her.. I miss my soul mate.. dear friends.. please help.. :confused:

[I wish]

I'm sorry to say, but she's not the same girl that you thought you feel in love with. Be happy that you spent 2 years together. Remember the happy moments and move on.

You might be blinded by love, but if she loved you back, she would at least give you an explanation. This girl doesn't deserve your love. She doesn't even respect you enough to confront you.

There are other women out there that will treat you with much more respect. Go out and meet new people. You've put your life on hold for 1 year already, that's long enough...

[deimos]

Thanks I WISH... most of my friends had the same kind of advice for me... everyone said " she don't deserve someone like you"... I too think the same now.. but still I can't forget her...

[talaniman]

Accepting her change in feelings for you, and the change in circumstances, is hard but necessary. You can't forget the past but in time you can deal with the reality of it being over, and move on with your own life, without her. It takes time.

[coollak]

Actually I in the same situation with u.. But my life now is more better without her.. but I still cannot forget her.. I think m not live in da reallity.. because I believe she will back at me and will love more than I.. because I believe in that I have my owm design company nowadays and I in the design magazine and people know me more than before.. but I still cannot forget her and forgive her.. in my situation she is near me.she is my junior at da college and in da same department.I will her more than 4 time in the weeks and that make me feel more hard to forget her.. even now I know she have new boyfriend and her boyfriend is her 1st love at the high school. Hurmm.. I try to accept that.. she still want be my friend.. but I cannot forgive her.. for all what she done to me. I cannot but I think I still wait for her to be by my side.. hurm also want her feel the pain that I have feel more than this 1 year and feel regret.. am I still love her? Or I am a psycho? Haha