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    mari_ Posts: 7, Reputation: 1
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    Apr 14, 2009, 01:07 AM
    what shall i do?
    =([/okaaaaaaaaaaaaaay sooooo I'm dating this guy I met online I'm a gorgeous grl that has no problem meeting guys or dating... I just don't attract nice guys I attract the mean tough guys... most whom are cops or sheriffs... well so I'm dating him now and I am afraid to tell my family that I met him online my mom keeps asking me... I don't know what to say I lie about how we met'... ooooh and I usually date the tall males and that have large muscles... and this guy is a little taller than I... he isn't fat but sure doesn't have big arms but he is the sweetest ever I'm afraid to take him around my friends because they will say I'm wayyyyyy too pretty for him I don't know to doooooo=(
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    Apr 14, 2009, 01:28 AM

    Hmmm. Why not come clean with your mum, if he is not like the others, and he is as sweet as you say.

    Its your life, wait how old are you?
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    Apr 14, 2009, 01:34 AM
    IF you are old enough to be out on your own, then it's your life, and she can either love you for who you are, or disprove of you for how you meet a "nice guy".

    As for your friends, "An insincere and evil friend is more to be feared than a wild beast. A wild beast may hurt your body, but an evil friend will wound your mind. Avoid all hottie, conceded proud and arrogant minds. And remain peaceful and subdued."-Buddha

    DOn't take it the wrong way, but your friends don't sound like very nice, or at least wise people. Why listen to a fool, or rude person?

    How long have you known him?
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    Apr 14, 2009, 01:35 AM
    "More often than not, those that apear to be strongest, are indeed weakest."- Me.
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    Apr 14, 2009, 06:04 AM

    In this case, I suggest that you get to know him better to make sure that you're actually serious with him before bringing it up with your mom.

    Let's say you've dated for 2-3+ years before telling your mom, then who really cares how you met in the first place. But if you guys were only dating for a few months, then it can sound sketchy to your mom.

    And you will be able to explain to your mom that you didn't tell her about him earlier because you wanted to make sure that it was serious.
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