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daydreamer1114 · Mar 30, 2009, 01:34 PM

My ex boyfriend and I dated for about a year. We broke up 8 months ago before I went to college and he moved to a new city, realizing we both weren't capable of a long distance relationship. After we broke up he went on vacation, but still called me every day (texts, "wish you were here" etc. etc.), until I hooked up with his best friend and stopped taking his calls. After he got back and he found out about it, we stopped talking all together and every time I saw him after that we would fight. Recently (since January) we've been talking again, nearly every day, and he keeps asking me to hook up. I've hooked up with him twice, and just recently realized that I do still have feelings for him (go figure). The last party I saw him at he kept flirting with me, and gave me his coat to wear, and then the next night (again) drove to the city I now go to school in to go to a party. Texting me, and updating me on his whereabouts throughout the night.
He constantly brags about this model he is dating, and makes it very known that he likes her, and doesn't like me, but also says that she isn't "dating material" and that she's not his girlfriend and that he doesn't want a girlfriend. However I decided to just come clean with my own feelings and tell him I do still have feelings for him, and that we probably shouldn't talk because I need to get over him. Yet he still talks to me.

I don't know what to do. I don't know what he is thinking or what the hell he is trying to accomplish here, all I can assume is that he doesn't want me to get over him, and I don't want to get over him because I miss him a lot, but I just think that getting over him is what I need to do because I don't want to be waiting around hoping for something that will never happen.

What is he trying to do? And what am I supposed to do about it?:confused::confused:

liz28 · Mar 30, 2009, 02:27 PM

Leave him alone. Why allow him to open your feelings for him and giving you false hope.

Now he might do want to be with you but can't over you sleeping with his friend. That was wrong regardless if you was together or not.

Stop talking to this guy because what the two of you had is over and in the past. How much longer do you plan on doing this?

Get out and have fun. Date a little! Take your focus off him and place it some where else.