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misspriscillaxo · Mar 10, 2009, 05:30 PM

I love my boyfriend and he is my world but I hate seeing him with other girls only when he looks like he likes them more than me =[ I feel he doesn't care about me as much as I care about him. I always catch him flirting and he doesn't think he's doing it . I really just don't feel like I'm good enough for him and I would like it if he tell me I was pretty or gives me compliments but he doesn't and it doesn't make me feel good at all and it makes it even worst when he's looking into another girls eyes. I just wounder what he's thinking about her because he never seems to think about me =[
help please

liz28 · Mar 10, 2009, 05:44 PM

Have you express these thoughts to your boyfriend? I can understand you feeling down because your boyfriend doesn't seems like he plays you any attention like he shows the other girls he pay attention to nor gives you any compliments but you need to communicate this to him. Some people are flirty by nature and means no harm or intent behind it. I know my fiancé is this way just like he knows I like at other guys and sometimes make comments about them to him but in the end we just laugh about it.

It seems like your relationship is lacking attention and maybe some affection but you need to address this matter in a non threating way and hear what he says and what he do about this probem.

mudweiser · Mar 10, 2009, 05:45 PM

Have you ever expressed these feelings to your boyfriend? If so how did he respond and what did he respond to you?

You need to be open with your boyfriend, if you feel afraid to even do so then you may be in the wrong relationship.

My suggestion is to you is to tell him what you feel.

MRS.S

mintah50 · Mar 10, 2009, 07:02 PM

You need to talk to your boyfriend. Another thing if you ever get jealous about a girl don't be I insecure on thinking low about yourself . But it also important to talk to your boyfriend about it, you need to explain to him what he is doing if he doesn't understand . Also if he doesn't stop after you explain then it a problem .

misspriscillaxo · Mar 10, 2009, 07:45 PM

I talk to himm about it but he says he doesn't care and it makes me feel like he doesn't even love me and I tell him this and he's like break upp with me then =[

misspriscillaxo · Mar 10, 2009, 07:46 PM

he just says break up with me then and he doesn't care but I love himm =[

mintah50 · Mar 10, 2009, 09:53 PM

Then you know what MISSPRISCILLAXO I hate to say this but you don't need that break up with him then don't let him think he can wrap his finger around you. You deserve better and even if the break will hurt , you will be able to find someone that is better for you. If he can't change then what can you do ? It not fair for you so I would say the best thing for you is to move on.

friend4u178 · Mar 10, 2009, 10:06 PM

Originally Posted by misspriscillaxo

i talk to himm about it but he says he doesnt care and it makes me feel like he doesnt even love me and i tell him this and hes like break upp with me then =[

Doesn't sound very respectful to me and certainly not something you tell someone you Love.

I'd be calling his Bluff!!

mintah50 · Mar 10, 2009, 11:41 PM

Originally Posted by friend4u178

Doesn't sound very respectful to me and certainly not something you tell someone you Love.

I'd be calling his Bluff !!!

I agree with this you have to ask yourself this question , and be HONEST with yourself. Because honesty is the best policy in life.

Romefalls19 · Mar 11, 2009, 05:26 AM

I was on his side until the whole comment about breaking up with him. Call him on it, and break it off. Find someone who will treat you with respect