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    Brownin Posts: 31, Reputation: -1
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    Jan 3, 2009, 05:50 AM
    Have I made a mistake?
    I just broke up with my boyfriend 2 days ago and I feel like I made a mistake, I finished with him because for about two weeks I haven't been able to speak to him, I text him an all he does is ignore me. The night we broke up he said the reason I haven't been able to get through to him is because he needed time to himself, it wasn't really the fact that he needed time to himself I couldn't understand why he couldn't call me an tell that instead of ignoring me, I was fedup that's why I ended it but now I feel like I'm over reacting and I wasn't that serious for me to end it.

    Don't know what to do should I get over it and move on? :confused::confused:
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    Jan 3, 2009, 05:57 AM

    Well, you're right. If he needed some time alone he should have told you that instead of just ignoring you. But, you should think about why exactly he needed that time - and why he didn't just tell you. Ask him about it, and depending on why, think about whether you should try and fix things.
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    Jan 3, 2009, 08:36 AM
    You weren't over reacting, you were being ignored, and for whatever reason it was rude, and disrespectful, for him not to be straight forward, and honest with you. Leave him alone, and don't look back. Have no regrets either.
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    Jan 3, 2009, 08:45 AM

    Maybe you did over react but if he really cared about you he would or at least should tell you that he wants another chance with you and try working it out with you. If he doesn't then maybe he really doesn't care enough.
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