[ash2004_mit]

Hi whoever is taking their time to read this I want to thank you in helping me out.

Before I tell you the situation I want to tell you about the girl. She is a beautiful girl with a great personality. We are both a good friend. I like her. One days I told to her "I like u" she answer to me "I know but see u as a friend not otherwise". I reply to her I want to you as a life partner, and further my reaction will be after your reaction. She reply yaar don't waste time I am not interested in this kind of relationship, we are just good friend. Frequenly we meet also I used to cal to her and SMS she never reply. She told me "I never reply to anybody this is my habit. She know to what limit I like but she not want to talk with me. Recently I'm noticed that she is ignoring me. But yaar I fall in love I want. What should I'll do so that she take interest on me.

[Clough]

Hi, ash2004_mit!

Well, you know that we have no control over how another person feels or thinks. If she's not really interested in having a permanent, intimate relationship with you, then it's best not to try to force the issue.

On the other hand though, no one can tell the future concerning relationships. My advice is to give her space, give both you and she some time, do everything that you can to remain just good friends since you already are, be patient, seek out other people to see and be the best person that you can be for both yourself and for others.

Only time will tell... But, it's best not to be getting your hopes up too high too soon and to leave your options open concerning permanent, intimate relationships.

There are many "fish" in the sea, and if she's not the one for you, then I'm sure that you'll find another one.

Hopefully, others will also come along to address your question as well as your concerns.

Thanks!

[JBeaucaire]

The best way to get her interested in you is for you to actively seek relationships with others. When you find a really good girlfriend and start to get serious, this girl may change her mind about you and show more interest.

When that happens, you can decide then if you want to give up your new GF who cares about you and isn't playing games for this old friend. You'll be in charge of the choice.

Most likely, you and your new GF will be much happier together, so I know how I hope you choose.