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meganchaplen · Dec 29, 2008, 11:04 AM

Hi,
I've been seeing my boyfriend for about 2 months now and everything was fine until I texted him one night, and he didn't reply. So I persisted and later called him 2 ask why he's been blanking me, thinking he'd maybe run out of credit or something and he just said *i'm pissed off at you* and hung up on me. I called back to ask why but he never picked up. When he did eventually speak to me again and I asked him why he was pissed off at me, he said *u've been acting weird and I can't be arsed anymore*. I haven't heard from him again for about a week or so. Why is he ignoring me, what have I done, am I dumped and how can I recapture his attention??
I apologised over and over again for stuff I know isn't my fault but it wielded no result :(:(

( bit of a string of questions there, sorry :) )

Clough · Dec 29, 2008, 05:38 PM

Hi, meganchaplen!

How old are you and he, please? It would help those of us here to advise you the best if we could know that.

Also, are you in a position where you see him on a regular basis?

Just a suggestion, if you're relying on texting or electronic communication of some kind in order to maintain a relationship, it's probably a better idea to be speaking in person, either on the phone or face-to-face. The whole texting thing can get way out of hand...

Just some thoughts...

Thanks!

LoveLifeBeHappy · Dec 31, 2008, 02:36 PM

If he won't tell you what you've done when you don't think you've done anything then he might be playing you. Just a suggest, you never know.
He may end it soon, if you get no response out of him I would end it before he does. Don't give him the satisfaction.

Good luck.

ja77 · Dec 31, 2008, 02:46 PM

As others have said it could be that your boyfriend is a bit of a player.

It could also be that he has issues etc with relationships, you need to let him know that the way that he is treating you is not right and that you also will not allow him to treat you this way.

Keep texting and calling him is making yourself look very needy to him, which never looks good !

I would send a message and say the way you feel about him and the way things are being honest, after that depending on his reply I would go no contact with him.

Keep your head up I know its hard but make some you time, go hang out with your friends and enjoy yourself, maybe even treat yourself to something nice, I mean he is moving on with his life still, you need to do the same.

Hope all works out for you, keep us posted.

barbiechick123 · Jan 2, 2009, 11:36 PM

Firstly, I don't think you should apologize because if you don't know what your doing how can you think it's wrong? Secondly, he may be a player (as mentioned) so I would see if you can get in touch with him (phone or face 2 face) and see what is up... texting really does get annoying.

BeccaPaige · Jan 3, 2009, 04:28 AM

I agree with.. everyone here.
If he won't tell you what you did wrong, then you shouldn't apologize.
You did nothing wrong, as far as you know.
Don't call him anymore, or text.
If you see him face-to-face, approach him and ask what's going on.
If he ignores you or something, eh, whatever.
Consider the relationship done - and not worth trying to save.