[chris36]

Hi there. Is this fair enough? My ex who I have not spoken to for over a year, suddenly comes back into my life by contacting my closest and best friend. I don't live in that town anymore, but I don't want to hear about my ex from my best friend. Anyway I have spoken to my best friend and he understands not to mention him and hopefully won't keep in contact. Anyway I can't tell people who to see and not to see, but I have moved on.. I don't want to be reminded of my ex. He has done this once before and I lost a friendship.. :(Why he can't find his own friends I'll never know... anyway I emailed my ex and got shirty with him, I got my point across to get out of my life. I don't want to know or hear about him! Anyway I feel so much better with the email and I feel closure. It's fair hey.. why should an ex be in touch with my best friend? Like move on ! I have earned the friendship with my best friend, but my ex just wants him as an "acquaintance" just to go out with? So find your own friends..

[DeleteAndBan]

Your closest and best friend would normally tell this person to get lost, since he's your closest and best friend...

Maybe your ex taking your friends is a good thing to find out who your real friends are!