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    Crazyness23 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Nov 19, 2008, 02:02 AM
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    Hi there

    I am 22yrs in the next 2weeks, but for the past 3mths I have been with this guy and I really have deep feelings for him, he feels the same way but the problem is I am married with a husband that I do love and kids and the same applies to the other person. What do I do:(:(:(
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    Nov 19, 2008, 02:57 AM

    Don't go throwing away what you've already got for something that could be a mere crush and short lived. The fact you've already let this situation flourish into something raises questions for me as to how much you really do love your husband. If you were truly content then there would be no other place you would look for - or find love in other than your husbands arms.
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    kctiger Posts: 3,653, Reputation: 1319
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    Nov 19, 2008, 07:11 AM

    Why don't you spend more time watering your own grass then looking at someone else's yard? I think you need to focus more on your current husband and your children... just my thoughts.
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    Romefalls19 Posts: 4,739, Reputation: 1130
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    Nov 19, 2008, 07:45 AM

    What is wrong with you people? Does marriage not mean anything to you? It's called adultry, it is a sin. Guess people seem to forget that. Stop throwing your lives away on this stuff, work on your on marriage!
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    Nov 19, 2008, 09:04 AM

    You need to take care of your marriage. Think of your kids. Think of the other guy's family. Take care of your family and stop seeing this other guy. End of question. Not trying to be mean. I can understand if you didn't love your husband and you were having problems but your not. So just forget this other guy break that off before you do something you're going to regret for the rest of your life.
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    Nov 19, 2008, 09:16 AM
    Being attracted to another is human. Acting on that feeling when your married, is low down, and dirty.

    Think of what this behavior leads to, and the misery, and pain, you cause, just to scratch and itch. Not worth it.

    If you can't cope with your own feelings, in an adult mature way, then stop play house with your husband, and let him get a mature, caring female, to have an adult, healthy, committed marriage with, and be happy.

    Now take your a$$ home, and stop this foolishness!!!

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