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    Nov 14, 2008, 11:13 PM
    How to initiate a conversation?
    How not to keep a girl bored? How to initiate a conversation with her? How to make her feel interesting? How to keep her laughing and smiling always?


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    Nov 15, 2008, 03:21 AM

    Hi, untamedheart!

    There's really no pat answer to what you're asking because each situation will be different.

    Having a relationship with someone is a two-way and not one-way street. Both people in the relationship need to give and take in order to maintain the relationship. It's not the responsibility of one of the individuals to be the sole person on whom the burden rests as far as making the relationship a success or not.

    Is there a particular challenge that you're having with a girl, or just wanting to know in general about how to do those things?

    I may be incorrect, but I sense that there's something deeper going on regarding those things for you... If so, would you please let us know? If there really isn't something deeper going on for you about this, then I apologize for being assuming.

    Thanks!
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    Nov 15, 2008, 06:41 AM

    Just remember she is probably having the same issues so just talk about yourself and she should follow. Don't worry about how interesting the conversation is, just do it. Good luck
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    Nov 15, 2008, 06:59 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mikedem7 View Post
    just remember she is probably having the same issues so just talk about yourself and she should follow. don't worry about how interesting the conversation is, just do it. good luck
    If you just talk about yourself, that wouldn't be nearly as conducive to making her feeling interesting about herself as asking and talking about things that concern her.
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