There are so many possile reasons for his "lack of interest." Your size change isn't really that much and it would seem after 2 years your relationship would be much deeper than that anyway, so I think its safe to disregard. It is quite common for couples to lose sexual interest as the relationship progresses through time. I assume you have discussed with him directly how you feel? Have you asked yourself honestly how important the sexual part of your relationship is to you? If it's something you can live without (Or take care of by yourself) then I would recommend letting it go for a while. It could be he is having some insecuruties or physical problems himself and taking the attention off that subject in itself will be enough. If you decide the sexual aspect istoo important to let it go any further I suggestsometime soon u should sit down with him during a comfortable casual time (not in bed or even the bed room!) Explain to him this part of your relationship is important to you and you still desire him sexually and ask him if there is anything you can do to remedy the situation. Then, (and this is the hard part) sit quietly and listen. Try to keep an open and pleasant look on your face so he feels he can speak to you without judgement or criticizm. Good luck to you.
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