[ditto_jackson]

Am a nice young man kind & lovable, am from india,I falled in love with a malaysian
Girl through internet chatting.we both are truly loving past 2 years,everyday we use to
Talk through micro phone.everyday she is watching me on web cam.but when I ask her
Show her face on web cam or to send some new pictures of her, she hate my request. She is telling she don't have a web cam in her home,she never gone to private internet centers,she is argueing and crying.whenever I talk about this there is a big fight between us.we both are in different countrys.before meet her how I can see her face on web cam?

Kindly help me,waiting for your kind reply

Ditto.jackson

[TrueFaith]

hmm well that's not good.

at all

maybe she has a low self esteem issue.. or she could not be the same girl. As she sent on the pics

there are many many risk! When it comes to internet attraction.
you can not take everything at face value.
if you do.. you get hurt.

all you can do is respect her wishes.. and that's it.

it does not sound like she wants you to see what she looks like.

but she may do in time

good luck
and be careful

[liz28]

Maybe she was playing games with you this whole time. Be careful of these chatline and keep your emotions in check.

I remember a member posted about meeting a girl online and went oversee to met her but when he got there she never showed. Can you image that?

My thing is met someone and get to know them but you can only get to know them by spending time with that person and then feelings can develop.

[JBeaucaire]

Maybe you should stop. When someone tells you NO and you care for them, you respect their answer.

You two are friends. I know it feels like more than that, but it isn't. You've never even shared a dessert together. So until your digital connection BECOMES something real-world, it's best you not put more onto it than it is.

Anyway, friend or girlfriend or spouse... you always listen when you're told "no." She says "no" to the web cam.

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