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    Oct 18, 2008, 07:48 PM
    Boyfriend trouble
    I am seeing a man that is 25 years older than me . I have been seeing him for about 8 months . I like him a lot and he has a lot of qualitys that I love . But he is a lot older than me . Also he has a friend that he sees once a month that helps him with his daughter and he's stays at her house . Also I just found out that he took her on vacation2 months ago to Colorodo and I did not know about it He doesn't want me to know his daughter or her . What should I do
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    Oct 18, 2008, 08:44 PM

    Just out of curiosity... how old are you?
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    Oct 18, 2008, 08:54 PM

    What do you mean seeing a guy for 8 months?? How would you define this relationship??
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    Oct 18, 2008, 08:55 PM

    25 years older... I think that's a little too much.
    How old are you?
    And... you say he doesn't want u to know his daughter.
    All ready he's hiding things which isn't good.
    You have to be open in relationships. BE CAREFUL!
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:22 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by bural21 View Post
    just out of curiosity... How old are you?
    26
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:23 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    What do you mean seeing a guy for 8 months??? How would you define this relationship???
    We are sleeping together
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    Oct 19, 2008, 07:43 AM

    The first thought that came to my mind when you said he took this woman on vacation and he doesn't want you to meet her is that this is his wife! Just a thought. Do you know who the mother of his child is, if it is not this woman? You probably need to find someone new. This is not a healthy relationship. If he cared for you, he would be upfront with you about things.
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    Oct 19, 2008, 08:39 AM

    Ok, he does not want to introduce you to his daughter, then he is not 100 percent serious over you yet,

    Also how old is his child ? 8 or 18 or 28??

    For example if I had a new girlfriend, she could meet my 28 year old, but I would want it to be a serious relationship to meet my8 year old.

    And OK 25 years is a big difference but on the other hand, if you two are happy it does not matter

    I could see myself dating a younger lady if a lot of issues were right
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    Oct 19, 2008, 11:57 AM

    If you are sleeping with someone, and are not a part of his life, that is something to think about. Taking someone else on vacation?? RED FLAG!!! Do you at least know his friends???

    But 8 months is not a long time, and I'm sure you do more than sleep together. Do you think there is more in this relationship in the future??
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