[MBP32]

Hey guys, I was with this girl for 6 years and she was my best friend well about months ago she broke up with me, but ever since then we have remained friends and it was def hard for me, and about 3 months ago she started staying with me, and we haven't had an sexual relationship since the break up, and we still cuddle and stuff. I still am in mad love with her? I ask her what's he wants todo like start over she tells me she doesn't know, its like she wants to but she doesn't. We argue about dumb stuff. I just don't know what to do, I want to leave her alone, but its to hard me because I love her and I want to back with her. I just don't understand as far as I know she not talking or dating anyone. What should I do?

[Tatewari]

You are a safe heaven for her, but she doesn't love you. You are a great guy and she knows it, that's why she stays around you. She is using you without meaning it, she is lonely or not ready for a relationship. When a girl loves a guy goes to the freaking end of the world for him, and I don't see her giving you anything in return that signals she wants to stay with you. The evidence is right there, she is not dating anyone, but still her choice is not to be with you. Save the friendship if you want, but don't expect her to love you and I don't think you love her if you are questioning that too.
Clear the air, clear your head,
Good luck!

[talaniman]

Trying not to be harsh, but you need to kick your best friend out, and get a real g/f.