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anna444 · Oct 9, 2008, 02:37 PM

Let me start from the start.I really loved this guy for about many years and finally was done with him.I actually never thought I would fall for anyone else.Than 3 months later I met this guy who I felt was my soulmate.I felt I knew him my whole life. It was strange hard to explain.He was a huge surprise to me anyway,He liked me a lot too the only
Problem is he is already dating someone.Someone who I hear doesn't treat him right.It just hurts to badly to see him with her.I only met him once but it still hurts a lot.I actually saw them together a couple of weeks ago.. My question is what should I do.. How can I get over this...

liz28 · Oct 9, 2008, 04:19 PM

Did you and this guy in question actually date? If he is with someone then it's best to step aside. It might hurt you to see him with someone but she was there before you. If he wanted to be with you then he would be with you. It sounds like your had a liking towards one another but you fell deeper.

The best thing for you to do is to find someone that wants to committ themselve to you and someone who not involved with someone. You can control your actions and some peoole are out limits. Question you met this guy once and felt head over heels with him? It might be lust instead of love or due to your break up with your ex.

AskJenny · Oct 9, 2008, 06:45 PM

No offense but you met him one time and he's already with someone else? What's your question here? He's taken! And you may have just heard rantings of the day. Not all days of life, love, marriage, are glorious days; some good, some so so...
Either way you dreamed of a life with him from one meeting... let it go, quit expending your energy on someone that's taken... maybe down the road you'll see him again and he won't be taken.

talaniman · Oct 10, 2008, 07:06 AM

Are you just replacing one guy for another, to make yourself feel better?

What happened in the other relationship?

anna444 · Oct 10, 2008, 02:37 PM

We just broke up because we wanted different things.. It was 5 months before I met this guy.I was totally over the ex!

liz28 · Oct 10, 2008, 03:07 PM

You need to get past this guy and find someone that is single for yourself.

talaniman · Oct 10, 2008, 10:19 PM

I insist, that you learn to love yourself a lot more, and start doing the things that you enjoy, that make you happy. Someone will want to share that happiness with you, so don't waste anymore time looking, they will find you.