[eugene21]

I have been viewing for months on this site other peoples issues and outcomes. One thing I have always lived by and that's if you are dumped for whatever reason and I mean any reason and the person that broke up with you still has feeling whether they be not much but little and/or the person still loves you there is hope to work things out.

If they do not love you anymore and say they have no more feelings for you then its over. Yes feelings can resurface and so can love but trust me it over. I have been dealing with my ex for over 9 months and she has said to me that she does not love me and feelings are no longer there. She said it just happened and wants me and her to move on in life apart. She said I need to understand this and move on.

Now I seen postings on books such as blasé harris and I will say this if the cause of it was you neglecting her then you have a change but if she does not want to try/ feels nothing/ and no feelings then its over no book and no one can change that but her. Let it go and let her/him miss you and if it takes a year then so be it. She/he will need to realize it on there own. By that time you have moved on.

[tickle]

Yes, eugene21, you have a pretty good insight into your particular situation and probably a lot of others in the same boat. You have to close the door on that part of your life.

[liz28]

That's good that you are able to move on and know that sometimes it's best to it. Sometimes people grow apart it can cause a breakup and regardless of the reason you can't get someone back that no longer wants to be you. Hey, it their lost.