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    loveable Posts: 70, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 6, 2008, 03:14 PM
    To become more confident
    Soo... how can you remove shyness?
    I'm a bit quite but I can be hyper too =]
    But around guys I'm very shy =[
    The thing I hate is that everybody mentions how shy I am.
    I am really getting fed up with this situation because it's iritating wanting to do something and not doing it because of shyness... like holding your guy or complimenting him.
    I believe in myself so I don't know why I'm shy around guys.
    Can somebody tell me how to remove this shyness??
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    Sep 6, 2008, 03:20 PM
    You have to get past your fears.

    I would guess that you worry too much about how what you say might be taken or come across to certain people.

    You want to be able to say and do the exact correct thing, and you have convinced yourself that you won't be able to.

    You really just have to force yourself to interact more, and allow yourself to say or do something that may be laughed at, or considered silly, and then be able to laugh at your own mistake and move on to try again.

    Practice makes perfect you know, you just got to get the nerve to practice.

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