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Am I being paranoid ?
Hi again,
Its going great after all our history and after I posted last time with this one guy I have been seeing. The communication is much better, I have been making more of an effort and it seems to be paying off, as so is he. We see each other more regularly, about 3 times a week BUT I have a niggling thought in the back of mind and am not sure if I am just being silly and paranoid because everything else is good. I am almost 40 with 3 teenage kids, my house is hectic and I am quite happy to go over to his nice quiet place or back to his and sleep over at the weekend after nights out as its only about 5 miles from me. However, this has become a bit of a habit and he never really offers to pick me up, I always seem to drive to him. At the moment its not bothering me too much as I don't feel it's a massive effort, but I know that if it carries on as 'routine' I am going to get paranoid that the only effort he really makes is arranging our social plans and putting his hand in his pocket. I am being silly, what do others think? Thanks |
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Are you looking for something to sabatoge your thinking, and this relationship??
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Hell, no not at all, its great at the moment. To be honest Ive been reading a few 'self-help' relationship books and they all seem to be saying conflicting things about how much effort a man should put in etc etc.. Now I am thinking maybe I should put them in the bin and go with what I feel is right and what I, as an individual want !
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