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    yazzifizzle Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 25, 2008, 08:52 AM
    He broke up with me , a week after he got a newgirl
    My ex of 2 years broke up with me.. after being pregnant and aborting it, he broke up saying I love you but I need to leave you and gave me no reason why, his friends told me he is just being a fool and he will come running back to me, ( that's what everyone says).. a week after our break up I see him with a new girl in the place where WE usually be, I was really pissed off, so I started dating other men, 2 weeks after HE saw me with a new man holding hands.. I could see he was really P* off, Is he serious about his new girl? Is this really over , when will he realize he had a good thang and come back because its so hard to forget him, after all our family knows about us and all our friends :(
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    Jul 25, 2008, 08:59 AM
    Hahaha. I have to laugh cause you 2 are really immature.

    He broke up with you probably because he got tired of being with you. Instead, he chose a new girl. That is HIS HUGE MISTAKE.

    Yet, you go around with other guys to P*SS HIM OFF which is YOUR HUGE MISTAKE.

    Seriously, seek therapy fast.

    By the way, talk to the family members and tell them the whole 10 yards.
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    Jul 25, 2008, 09:18 AM
    I agree, the whole tit for tat crap is high school and very juvenile. Who cares what everyone says because the only one that truly matters in what is said, is your ex. And I'm pretty sure he sent the biggest message with no words at all. ITS OVER
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    Jul 25, 2008, 09:31 AM
    Sounds to me that you went through a lot. There is reason right there. IF he meant so much to you than why not have his child. Can he get any credit at all for possibly having a hard time dealing with the emotion of the experience? Maybe he's simply trying to run away from it or just doesn't want the reminder for life. Either way learn from this, grow up and move on. It's important not to seek other's advise when dealing with serious matters of the heart. Speak to him not his friends? Perhaps, if he's moved on so should you.
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    Jul 26, 2008, 09:03 AM
    For the life of me I can't see how you overlook the obvious. Its over, and all the games are just a waste of time. Put this behind you, heal from it, get healthy, and happy without him in your life.
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