As mentioned, you cannot make her do anything she doesn't want to do.
You can be sorry. You can apologize. You can think about how to treat another person differently in the future. You can wait it out, keep trying, and see how she responds.
Unfortunately, being sorry and even a changed person doesn't make her accept anything. That's the thing about a sincere apology... you don't give it demanding anything in return.
So... you can make the effort. Go see her. Take the noise shell throw at you most likely.
So you were bored by her... what's up with that? Are you spending too much time together? How often do you see each other or talk or text? Your actions of diverting calls was a dumb move... but if you are feeling smothered by constantly being in touch, it happens and its reasonable. People need personal space, time for friends, time alone, etc. sometimes when starting to date people get so wrapped up in the relationship that there's nothing else but that. You aren't her girlfriend. You don't need to chat on the phone hours on end. Half the fun of a new relationship is the mystery... and being with her all the time, if that's the case, might be taking away from that. I'm married, but I have friends I see, as does my wife. Being around other people gives you a broad support base, more experiences...
But if the issue is you felt smothered, you need to talk it out, not sidestep your responsibility.
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