[starwishing]

He told me he liked me, and asked me how to pursue me. But he is a very popular guy in my college. He is handsome, sociable, and smart. Lots of girls like him. I never looked serious when facing his questions, for I am not confident to be his girlfriend. Last relationship really kicked my , and I don't want to be hurt again.
But his care for me sometimes touches my heart. I think I will like him. Last night I looked at his profile on Facebook for a long time, and it was already 3:00 am. Suddenly a chat window popped up, and he wrote on it, "Go to sleep". I felt a strange feeling of happiness.
He has lots of things to pursue, like a high GPA, a wonderful job, etc. I actually don't know why he likes me, for I am very ordinary.
Sigh...

[MeMeMoo]

If he likes you, you don't need to know why. If you like him, be with him. =]

[JBeaucaire]

Love and attraction are out your control. Can you explain why you like someone at first? I bet you can't. The same goes for him. There doesn't have to be ANY reason at all for him to like you at first.

After that, just being a great girl, even an ordinary one, may be all it takes to land a great guy.

Stop suspecting, enjoy your life.

[weasmox]

From experience I'd have to tell you that the image some movies usually show about popular guys who just like hot and popular girls [usually cheerleaders] isn't really true. At a certain age this IS true. But most guys [ I mean mature guys ] in real life are actually popular because they have a lot of qualities though you can c in those movies they'r popular because they'r hot! So MY POINT, if he's a nice guy " He is handsome, sociable, and smart" then you should go out with him. Doesn't matter if he's popular or not! And he does seam 2 like u! And you being confused about it means there's something there for him also;)
Anywayz good luck with him!:)

PS (1): if he's popular doesn't mean he HAS to like a certain type of girls. Mature guys[weather they'r popular or not] like girls with good sense of humor,friendly, nice and carring :)

PS (2): watch the movie "John Tucker Must Die" ! I'm sure u'll love it! :P

[Chameleon]

Go for it girl! Its not a life or death situation, so what's the worst that can happen? Have fun with life! So what if he's popular? I've met some popular guys who were very nice and guess what, that's why they were popular! Good luck!

[Fr_Chuck]

Just it sounds you have a low opinion of yourself, like you don't deserve the best. Each of us is special in our own way, and for guys and gals, looks, jobs and being cool or being popular actually mean nothing in the area of a good relationship, In the world looks and jobs may mean income and lifestyle and make you appear great to some. But with that said, in relationships it is personalities, shared interests, backgrounds and more that make them work or not work.

[talaniman]

Don't let fear of a heartbreak stop you from having fun, while you get to know each other better. That's the whole point in dating. Just do not invest your whole soul into a stranger, no matter what he says until he is no longer a stranger, but someone who has proven they can be trusted. Go slow and pay attention, to see if its really worth pursuing, and not just an unhealthy attraction with many problems, and issues.