[greg b]

I was on the phone to my girlfriend one night and we talk about what we done through the day. She told me that she didn't do any anything one day then the next day when I saw her friend she asked me if my girlfriend asked me to go to cinema with her that night she said she did nothing. She did go to cinema but just didn't tell me should I be woried? I was quite annoyed actually at the time, I know I can't know everything she does but it s like if your not telling me something small and stupid like that, what else isn't she telling me? I love the girl but sometimes when I'm in this situation I feel as though I don't know where I stand and I get that feeling at the back of my head which gets me thinking is she cheating on me? It's a bit of a worry. Its my first relationship and I think I am a mug in love and I feel as though its taking over me because I think about her everysecond and wonder about her all the time do you think most lads feel like this what can I do?

[Vothep8]

I think the situation could be innocent, she could have had a lousy time at he cinema and just didn't want to talk about it. But if I was in your situation, I would just ask her why she didn't tell you she went to the cinema, but I would try to do it in a way that wouldn't make me look like I'm being suspicious and jealous, I would ask in a friendly voice what movie she seen and if it was good, that way if she is innocent then you don't make yourself out to be a controlling jerk.