[sarah23]

My question is all about my friends... :( m studying a subject which I really don't like now.and while going to university it really piss me out as I don't have friends of my type and all are back bitters.they always goes on talking about me in my back which I come to know by some of the friends.the girls who talk bad about me for e.g.. they say m a smart ,I show my dad's asset.even if I wear a simple skirt they start looking at me very strangely.m really frustrated I dunt know what to do.
The girls who are backbitting about me doesn't seem to do so because when they are in front of me they act normal.. I don't want to go to uni anymore and like its freakin me out,as I don't want to be bad to anybody as I have two more year to spend in this uni..
The girls who backbite are different from me,all are from poor background but I have never shown them that m superior,, I always try to act normal and want to be normal friends...
Help me out...
How should I deal with those acting girls... :confused:

[JBeaucaire]

The girls are normal and friendly and supportive to your face? Be normal and friendly and supportive to their face.

What they do/talk about when you're not around should not be of concern to you.

How are you even getting the information they are being mean behind your back? Wherever you are hearing that information from, I would examine that source. Do you need to keep getting this extra info about them? I hope not. It's not helping you.

[talaniman]

Stay away from the drama by ignoring the rumors, and sticking to your own business. Aincha got enough to worry about with school work?

[MulhollandDGirl]

I feel bad for you, I've been through the same . There's always going to be a ty time in your life, but realize that you choose your own life. If they make you feel bad don't hang with them. I used to have friends that talked about me behind my back, I talked to them and said that it was y and 5th grader'ish and that if our paths crossed I would smile, but our friendship was over. I have one really good friend, and that's all I need. It's better to have one good friend, than 50 random one's.

I hope you choose what you want to do, it's up to you. Good luck with everything.

[sarah23]

Thank u so much for all of your answer,
That's right we cannot prove anyone that we are right...
We must be right in our life,it really touched me

[mrchef1110]

Find people who will accept you for you. I know these people are hard to find but when you do find them believe me you will know these relationships can and should change your life. It seems that the school year is coming to a close so when next year rolls around instead of hanging out with these girls find some new contacts and put yourself out there as the only way you can meet new people is to be on the look out for new friends.