[ruis913]

Well I've been in my relationship for about a year and 9 months basically almost 2 years, and yes of course I love her with all my heart and she says the same, but like we always have our ups and downs and we kind of fight more often than usual and it seems like were slowly falling apart. Things seem to get boring and when we try to just hang out we are bored majority of the time. Now I don't know if it's the lack of sexual intercourse or not because we don't do it so often but when we do its always great of course. We always just lose conversation because of, either boredom or just don't know what to say and I think that to me a great toll on a good relationship is conversation, and we both have talked about it it just nothing seems to work and we want to stay together, but I seriously need some help on this and I'm usually good at this some sort of stuff but I can't think of anything to do so what should I do?

[N0help4u]

Find out what each others interests are and start working together on getting 'unbored'
Many relationships are like that and often the couple happily co-exist with their complacency and do not think anything of it. You evidently want more out of life than some people so you need to work together on coming up with a solution.
Think of things you both enjoy
Sports
Billiards
Bowling
Miniature golf
Picnics
Festivals
Concerts
Plant a garden
Take a class or hobby together'
Find something like an organization to get involved in

Find some common interests and work together on them

[stephysteph8978]

You need to figure out what brought the two of you together, like activities etc. and try doing some of those things together again. Find new things to do like instead of going to the movies play something fun like tennis, it's a great conversation starter and it's fun also. I had the same problem but I found that if we you try things that you haven't tried before together it makes you closer.