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    everafterlove Posts: 20, Reputation: -1
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    Apr 9, 2008, 01:45 PM
    Girlfriend gets kiss from ex-boyfriend at club
    I've got a girlfriend, she's 27 and I'm 26
    She went to a club with her friends and I couldn't go.
    She happens to meet her ex-boyfriend there that she was in love with in the past
    She says she walks by him and says hey. He comes up to her and gives her a kiss as she's leaving.

    She says it was on the cheek and it didn't mean anything. Like a good bye kiss.

    Don't know how I should feel about this?
    Should she have known that he's about to kiss her that he was getting too close and moved away since she has me as a boyfriend?

    Should she have told him that she has a boyfriend and that's not appropriate?

    Is it her fault? She says she was drinking too. Don't know how buzzed she was.

    Should I let this slide?
    :confused:
    Thanks
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    Apr 9, 2008, 01:49 PM
    She also was wearing a necklace at the club that he gave her when they were together like 4 years ago. And she claims that it broke that night and that it means nothing to her now that the necklace has no meaning attached to it from her relationship with him. She still keeps it in a little box.
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    Apr 9, 2008, 03:36 PM
    How did you find this out?

    If she told you maybe she wanted you to know up front. She also may have wanted to see your reaction. I think you should play it cool and not make a big deal out it. It might be nothing and to jump down her back with no evidence is not going to help you. I'm not saying dismiss it altogether, keep it in the back of your head, but don't make it a point of contention until you need to, if you do need to.
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    Apr 10, 2008, 08:31 AM
    I would really want to know who told you all of this?
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    Apr 10, 2008, 08:47 AM
    If it was just a simple kiss on the cheek and she herself came and told you about then nothing really to worry about bro... Now if she hid it from you, that's a totally different story. Had you been able to go, she might have introduced you to him. But this is all what if. Just let it go man, unless she hid it from you there's really no reason to be jealous and/or upset

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