[buhlesy12]

Hey everyone, my girlfriend and I went on a break about 4 months ago and then got back together like 3 weeks later.. the reason for the break was that she said I'm too good for her... we patched everything together and things were somewhat OK but now its back again she told me today I'm too good for her and we need space for a little bit... I mean am I missing I sign that its over?because she tells me all the time she couldn't live without me in her life and that she loves me or should I give her time and see what happens again but this is twice now and I don't want to wait and get hurt... any feedback would be great I'm just so confused with this thanks

[jrebel7]

I am sure she does love you and she doesn't want you out of her life. She wants you to be in her life but she wants her space. Letting go is difficult and some people take breaks to try to ease out of a relationship so there are no harsh feelings but a clean break heals quicker than a slow tear. The choice does not have to be up to her. I would suggest that you take a good look at your relationship with her, ask yourself if you want to be in a "Yo Yo" situation with her or if you want to move forward in your life and find someone who is happy being with you and you with her, without "taking breaks".

I wish you happiness and clarity of thought as you make this decision!