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N2Music · Feb 21, 2008, 12:39 AM

Okay... been hitting it off with this girl for a month... going amazing... she was head over heels for me and we were both falling fast. Lived an hour away and was driving to see me. She had only been single for 3 or so months from a 1yr. Relationship that she said kind of messed her up. She had told me she had never fallen for someone the way she was falling for me. She gave me the speech one time about being scared to let people get close to her and what not and pushes them away.. but she knew she wanted to be with me and didn't want to miss out. Everything was going normal she had some bad drama with her mother a few days later and I was there for her all night... we talked the next day when she got off work, she is telling me she misses me and all the nice stuff and she was going to see me the following day on Wednesday... well that was the last time I talked to her... I text and called worried and wondering what was going on and she would never respond no matter what I asked. Thursday I noticed she had blocked me on email... I couldn't believe it... so yea.. I text her a lot because I wanted to know what was going on... she had to get a guy friend she works with to call me that Friday basically saying leave her alone... freaking crazy. She didn't have the balls to say anything to me herself. So I wait a week and text her saying I forgive her for what she did and I don't hold grudges and to not be a stranger or be afraid to talk to me... all she could say was... "im a bad person, im sorry" That was it. I text her a few days later just saying hey... no response at all. She still will not talk to me. I don't get it after she was so into me and falling for me to not even communicate with me. Will she eventually talk to me and come back... she knows I did nothing wrong. Or is she holding on to so much guilt she can't talk to me yet? It has been 2 weeks since this occurred and since last Friday when she text me. I know I'm done with my efforts. THANKS for reading my long drama haha.

jolienoire · Feb 21, 2008, 03:31 PM

Listen, please for your own sanity DO not contact her, in fact she seems a bit childish, don't call text email, No contact is very advisable. Obviously she blocked your email FLAG "I dont' want to talk to you" that was your que, actually when she stop calling you. Please leave this woman alone unless you want to take a ride on a mental roller coaster. A relationship CAN not WORK with one person trying.. She has issues she need to work out, perhaps she is still not over her ex, her past issues with trust is not your fault... That's an excuse.. Let her go bro... it will be hard but you will get over her... THE END

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talaniman · Feb 23, 2008, 03:04 PM

She obviously has had second thought so leave her alone and don't contact her any more.

ihatewestseneca · Feb 23, 2008, 07:19 PM

You may have just been a rebound... and then perhaps she felt guilty because she used you to help her get over her ex, and now doesn't want to be with you... psh... women...

You've only been together a month... forget her, move on, NC, all that fun stuff

ISneezeFunny · Feb 23, 2008, 07:22 PM

Either that or she found a new one and this is her way of getting rid of you. Either way, props to ihatewestseneca. Psh.

Ash123 · Feb 23, 2008, 09:33 PM

Read my guide below.

Don't chase or you'll get mase.

N2Music · Feb 26, 2008, 05:19 PM

Thanks for the responses... today makes one week for me with NC and going on 2 weeks since I last heard a response from her... still tough at times but there is no point in me contacting her anymore... she knows where I stand and knows she screwed up... she'll come back if she really meant the things she shared with how she felt... crazy females haha.