[PinkyPoshe04]

I would like to say thank you for your advice, and to everyone else that posted and answer for me. Well, we spent the Friday night together and it was awkward. I was very distant even though I wanted to spend the time with him. We went to movies and dinner. I poured out my soul to him, and he went on the defensive saying that my mind is running away from me. We departed ways in the morning and I said that I wanted to spend the day with him.He told me that he had a lot of work to do on his truck, so I said OK. When we went our separate ways at 11:10am. For some reason I had suspicions that he was not going home which is an hour away. He called me at about 1:25 asking how far up the turnpike I had gotten. That was strange! I asked him where he was and he said that he was just reaching exit 8. Now this is a problem, because it takes him an hour to get home from where we were. He says he sat for 10 minutes after I left. Ok, let's just say 11:30am. Exit 8 is 15 minutes from where we are. Maybe I am just overreacting, but that does not add up. Ok, I don't trip. I go home and then call him and tell him to text me when he reaches home. He texts back saying he is not going straight home. I text back and ask if I can see him later and he says OK. I call him at 6:30pm, no answer. I text him at 7pm, no response. I am upset now. I don't hear from him until Monday night at around 6pm, when he calls and says he was very busy and was just getting a chance to call me. I didn't answer the phone! I was so hurt (maybe I am wrong). I felt so unimportant! How can you go that long without talking to someone you are supposedly in love with? I broke it off, and haven't talked to him since Saturday. I didn't want to be with someone that was not in love with me, and that I thought he had another woman. He replied," I am crazy". I also tole him to call me when he wanted to be in a relationship with only me. He has called me and text me saying that he misses talking to me, and that he is going crazy. He says that he is "In love with me". He text me a again awhile ago, but I did not respond. What should I do? Should I respond?

[Bluerose]

No. He is messing with you. He keeps you dangling, only wants you there when it suits him. Detached yourself from the yo-yo situation and keep a look out for someone who deserves your attention.

[talaniman]

If you can't go through a day without assuming the worse, then you have a problem YOU need to deal with.