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    Jan 9, 2008, 06:29 PM
    Why men say they need space when breaking up
    Hello,

    I was in a serious 10 month relationship and my ex-boyfriend said ne needed space from me and that he felt a lot of pressure in the relationship and that he needed to be left alone to better himself as a person. He hasn't contacted me, and when I have tried to, he has been cold and told me he did not want to talk. What does this mean?
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    Jan 9, 2008, 07:26 PM
    A lot of crazy thoughts go through mens minds, he might have gone off you but you won't know till you ask him, in the flesh so he can't escape or put the fone down
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    Jan 9, 2008, 08:06 PM
    He means he no longer wants to be your b/f, and is moving on. Both male and female dumpers use the space thing, when they are trying to be nice.
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