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    cutie08 Posts: 121, Reputation: 2
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    Jan 9, 2008, 02:15 PM
    Best friend had sex with my boyfriend
    I had this friend we have been really good friends for 2 and half years now.. then freashman year she started acting really slutty and hooking up with 2 or 3 guys in a night. We all got worried about her so we confronted her about it and the problems we had she completely went off when all we were trying to was help.. it eventually blew over and we were cool again and then I got the news from many people that she had sex with my boyfriend and was trying to get with one of my other friends boyfriends so we confronted her about this a little bit more pissed she got her parents involved witch called the school posting us as a threat to her and that they wanted us suspened. We were told to have no contact with her in school or out. Then 2 days later I got an I'm from her asking if I could tell her why exactly I was mad at her and no longer wanted to be friends with her to be nice I told her why come to find out it was her mom messageing me witch she had no right to do I ended up getting suspened for it and she got nothing. A lot of stuff between us started happening and now we no longer speak at all. And when I look at it I do miss the friendship that the two of us had I mean I know what she did was wrong and all but having two classes together and thinking about how much I just want to go up and talk to her and get things all worked out I don't know should I do it? If so what should I say to her?
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    Jan 9, 2008, 04:23 PM
    Did she really have sex with your boyfriend or was that just a rumor? If it was a rumor you still may want to be a little hesitant before talking with her seeing how she got her parents involved and got you suspended. If it wasn't a rumor though and you started talking to her she may try to take your boyfriend again.
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    Jan 9, 2008, 04:48 PM
    So you never stated... did she sleep with your BF?? Is it true, and how do you know? What does he say about it?

    Answer that before we talk more...
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    Jan 10, 2008, 06:17 PM
    Yeah its true I know because my boyfriend at the time confessed it to me
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    Jan 10, 2008, 06:21 PM
    I think you need to cut ties with her. Don't talk to her. She slept with your boyfriend, she tried sleeping with her other friend's boyfriends and her AND her mom are being really immature about the whole situation. So you can be the mature one. Don't speak to her and find a new best friend. I know its hard, I've lost plenty of friends of stupid stuff, but eventually you'll move on and forget about it.

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