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Dec 6, 2007, 04:32 AM
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I'm totally confused about my girlfriend. She ditched me but not ready to leave me.
Well I am in love with this girl since last 2 yrs. And we were truly committed to each other. We both stole time to get away... and she's been supporting me every time I needed help...
But problem came when I got a different college and she in a different city. I thought that I have to make our life happy (as we had decided to get married after graduation)(yup I'm under-grad) so froma better college I can get a better job. And hence a better life.
Every thing was fine even I went to coll we talked daily for hrs in night. But then she started leaving me and saying that there's another boy in her coll who loves her more... well I tried to explain that it not true. I talked to the boy.. he came out to be a ruffian. So I discouraged her from him... well she then started hangin out with him but then when she came to know that he was hitting on other girls also before her she left him. Now the matter was calm but then she again started talking about another boy... this boy turns out to be a good guy.. so well she says to me that she's leaving me... I protested but it made her angry.. well I waited 4 2 days to let her anger come down... and now she says she's dedicated to him...
Well then I say lets break the relatinship completely(not once many times)... BUT then she always said we can be friends...
I'm totally confused please help..
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Dating & Teen Expert
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Dec 6, 2007, 05:33 AM
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Leave her alone. She obviously wants to be free to date other guys and there is nothing you can do to change that. Just leave her alone. Don't even talk to her. NC will help you heal and get over her.
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Expert
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Dec 6, 2007, 08:24 AM
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I agree with Homegirl, leave her alone and move on. You went to a better college for a better job, and a better future, now you can get a better girlfriend to share your success with.
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Junior Member
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Dec 6, 2007, 06:22 PM
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Yes I totally agree with them it's time to move on and find someone new.
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New Member
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Aug 20, 2012, 09:04 AM
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U all are absolutely correct..!
But yaar... how can these girls do it...
Just use and throw..!
... they should be punished..!.
M saying this becoz... ii have also been through this USE N THROW..!
Now I am totally broken...
I can't concentrate on my job,my career
... infact frendz use to say just forget her and move on...
But its me who knows how tough it is to move on... when everything around me refreshes her memories, even streets, food,car front seat,everything..!
Please help me out...
:,-)
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Dating & Teen Expert
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Aug 20, 2012, 09:11 AM
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This tread is 5 years old.
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