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    minnie4431 Posts: 18, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 19, 2007, 06:04 PM
    Ex wants another chance
    I ran into my ex the other day. He has hurt me so many times I only just recovered six months ago. Now he is moving into town again and wants another chance. I really lyk him but I don't want 2 get hurt again. He says he has changed. I want to give him another chance but somewhere inside me I feel that I cant. Please help me
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    Nov 19, 2007, 06:17 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by minnie4431
    i ran into my ex the other day. he has hurt me so many times i only just recovered six months ago. now he is moving into town again and wants another chance. i realy lyk him but i dont want 2 get hurt again. he says he has changed. i want to give him another chance but somewhere inside me i feel that i cant. please help me

    If you feel he's going to hurt you again. Then I wouldn't even bother with this fool. People don't change very easily, and habits are hard to break.

    If he's hurt you once, he'll hurt you again (not to sound pessimistic)

    I hope you make the best decision for you.

    Wishing you the best,

    Kevin
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    Nov 20, 2007, 12:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by minnie4431
    i ran into my ex the other day. he has hurt me so many times i only just recovered six months ago. now he is moving into town again and wants another chance. i realy lyk him but i dont want 2 get hurt again. he says he has changed. i want to give him another chance but somewhere inside me i feel that i cant. please help me
    Yes we've all changed and it took less than 3 years. In fact it probably took less than a few minutes of real brain time stretched out over some months for him to discover he'd changed. If he had changed he would have considered your feelings before moving back to town. Good luck with this twink.
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    Nov 20, 2007, 02:08 AM
    Go with your gut and heart, gal! NO!! Stay recovered. Tell him that you like him, but you've moved on. Then stop all contact as much as possible. It just wouldn't work out after all the pain he has caused you no matter how much he's changed. I'm sure you can find a good relationship that will be easier, less painful and more satisfying.

    Hugs, Didi
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