Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    who_knows's Avatar
    who_knows Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #1

    Nov 9, 2007, 04:03 PM
    I can't make it perfect
    I've been in a relationship for nearly 2 years. I love my boyfriend more than anything, no joke! When I say to him "I can't live without you" I genuinly mean it, although it feels like he doubts it too much. I'm pretty stuborn, and have little patience, but I used to have loads. Sometimes he makes me out to be the worst girlfriend ever, and lately I'm starting to believe it. I hate the way I get agrievated so easily around him, he knows what annoys me but continues to do so anyway. I feel guilty after I say he's annoyed me because he says things like "why do I always annoy you?". He knows he doesn't always annoy me, I've told him sooo many times.
    At the start of the relationship we were going so good, up until 6 months we were having arguments almost everyday, then they stopped for a bit, and started again, but not half as bad as before. Now they're pretty much irregular, but of course we have a couple of "tiffs". I'm fed up of having these arguments, I want it back to how we were when we used to click just like that. I know I have a different sense of humour to him, but that seems to affect the relationship a lot.
    Sometimes I feel like giving up, and he knows but I genuinly wouldn't be able to live without him. I'm not suicidal, but this proves how much of an impact he has on me.
    I don't know if much advice could be given, but any would be grateful.
    Wondergirl's Avatar
    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
    Jobs & Parenting Expert
     
    #2

    Nov 9, 2007, 04:12 PM
    You've changed. When you met him and were getting acquainted, you were on your best behavior. Now that he knows you and you are comfortable with him, your unconscious has decided it's safe for you to be yourself.

    Now, think about it. How were you in the beginning? Make a list of the traits that he liked. Can you be that way again?
    who_knows's Avatar
    who_knows Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
    New Member
     
    #3

    Nov 9, 2007, 04:20 PM
    Thinking about it, it feels as though my patience has changed the most out of everything. Since the first lot of major arguments I can't "tollerate" most things. I know its me mainly causing the arguments and fall outs. Maybe as soon as I build it up again, things will be as perfect as they can be.

Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions

 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search

Add your answer here.


Check out some similar questions!

The perfect breed [ 5 Answers ]

Hi I'm looking for a purebred dog, for February 2007, and I would like to know some non-shedding hypoallergentic breeds of dogs, Please don't tell me to get a mutt because I want a purebred, thanks

The perfect... [ 19 Answers ]

Handjob. Seriously, need advice on techniques, because it is harder than it looks! Any tips to make him crazy?

It was perfect until... [ 12 Answers ]

The other night I went out with my boyfriend, his little brother and his mum. We all went to a family get together, my boyfriend drunk a lot and was fairly drunk by the end of the night. We all went back to his mums, where I looked after him, cleaned up his sick, comforted him, hugged him, bathed...

Looking for the Perfect Handcream [ 7 Answers ]

Hello All, I am on a quest to find the perfect handcream. Anybody have a favorite that they might share the name? I cannot stand dry hands and have tubes all over the place. Thank you.


View more questions Search