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zend_out · Oct 17, 2007, 11:15 PM

So, I work with the girl in question. Not as often as I like, but when we do work together we have a blast. She laughs at everything that I say. Touches me multiple times by my elbow/forearm. She leans into me(sometimes). She's stopped by work the past two times when I was scheduled and she was off. She tells me a lot of herself. If I piss her off she doesn't get mad at me. What is going on? She is a very cool chick, by the way. Also I noticed her playing with her tongue piercing a lot while being around me today, and at one point she was holding it out(the tongue piercing only). It's hard to explain.

Clough · Oct 17, 2007, 11:52 PM

It sounds to me like she likes you! Is there some reason why you think and/or feel that it's hard to "read" her?

brookeleigh · Oct 18, 2007, 04:05 AM

I have a tongue ring too and I don't do it to impress people it's just it's addicting to play with. Why don't you make a move.. see if she's into it!

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 09:37 PM

Originally Posted by Clough

It sounds to me like she likes you! Is there some reason why you think and/or feel that it's hard to "read" her?

She seems to have a reputation.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 09:49 PM

What kind of reputation would that be, if you don't mind my asking?

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 10:23 PM

She seems to have a lot of guy aquaintences.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 10:34 PM

Originally Posted by zend_out

She seems to have a lot of guy aquaintences.

Do you mean like a lot of boyfriends? Or, does she have a tendency to just hang around with guys in general?

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 10:37 PM

Probably the second one. And some of the first one.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 10:40 PM

Would you mind telling me how old you are and how old she is, please?

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 10:45 PM

I'm 26. She's 23.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 10:47 PM

Okay, thanks!

Do you want to ask her out? I think that it's pretty clear that she does like you. Isn't it? Seems like a lot of flirting going on.

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 10:50 PM

Hell yeah I do. Nice.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 10:54 PM

Is there something that is keeping you from asking her out? I want to add, that just from what you have said, and if I were in your shoes, one thing that I might be feeling is a little competition from the guys she hangs around with. Especially, if I might happen to be buds with one or two of them.

Is that something that might be in play here?

I'm just trying to figure out your feelings and also the situation that you are in.

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 11:01 PM

Well she has a boyfriend. I don't even know how the guys at work would react. I've been there 6 months. She has a baby. She's really easy to be around with. She's got this unique look that is awesome. She likes rock music(I think). She makes my tummy feel funny. When I see her I kind of freeze up for a few seconds.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 11:05 PM

Originally Posted by zend_out

Well she has a boyfriend. I don't even know how the guys at work would react. I've been there 6 months. She has a baby. She's really easy to be around with. She's got this unique look that is awesome. She likes rock music(I think). She makes my tummy feel funny. When I see her I kind of freeze up for a few seconds.

Thanks! That does shed quite a bit more light on the situation!

How do you know that she has a boyfriend?

Is her boyfriend the father of the baby?

How long has her flirting with you been going on?

Believe me, I know all about the tummy thing! Been there, done that!

>>>Edit<<< I also know all about feeling nervous around women that I like and in whom I am interested!

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 11:11 PM

Originally Posted by Clough

Thanks! That does shed quite a bit more light on the situation!

How do you know that she has a boyfriend? I've seen him.

Is her boyfriend the father of the baby? No

How long has her flirting with you been going on? It started recently. The past 4 times we've been around each other.

Believe me, I know all about the tummy thing!! Been there, done that!!

>>>Edit<<< I also know all about feeling nervous around women that I like and in whom I am interested!!

^^

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 11:19 PM

I think that you should take a chance and ask her out. Doesn't have to be for anything romantic. What about asking her out to lunch? "Hi, (name) would you like to go out to lunch with me?"

Lots of people go out to lunch as male/female couples with each other that work in the same places.

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 11:28 PM

We actually had lunch once before when I first started working there. She asked me to go with her. I went but had no I had no cash. She actually gave me some of the food she had gotten. But I was kind of out of my element back then. And I mucked it up.

Clough · Oct 18, 2007, 11:32 PM

Originally Posted by zend_out

We actually had lunch once before when I first started working there. She asked me to go with her. I went but had no I had no cash. She actually gave me some of the food she had gotten. But I was kind of out of my element back then. And I mucked it up.

You can always move forward and go on with things in your life.

Do you know whether she was already seeing her boyfriend when you went out to lunch together?

zend_out · Oct 18, 2007, 11:36 PM

No. She took time off work and I didn't see her for a while. I found out that she had stopped by work and hung out and asked about me. Stuff like: How is he? What's he up to?