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wanthimback85 · Oct 22, 2005, 01:02 AM

My boyfriend and I just broke up tonight and I want to get him back but also want to wait awhile so he won't think that in missing him already, let me give you some history : we have been together for about a year and we have a baby girl on the way I don't want her to grow up like I did with out a father . And plus I 'm in love with him , we broke up because he said that he feels like he owes his ex so he wants to try it again with her but for some reason I don't care if he wants to try that over , I still be here waiting for him to come back to me but I'm thinking what if he doesn't come back to me and that works out .someone help me I really want him back I can't have my baby girl grow up like that and I don't want to live with out him someone with wisdom help :( :( :( :( :confused: :mad:

fredg · Oct 22, 2005, 03:42 AM

Hi,
I am so sorry to hear about your situation. Your boyfriend obviously does not want to be a Daddy!
He is, but what I mean is that he now wants someone else.
The best you can do is to take care of yourself and the baby that's on the way. Keep talking with him, but don't have your mind set on him coming back to you. There is always hope, though.
If you will try meeting new people, you just might find someone else. There is a chance that your baby will be born without its Father around. That is something you have to face. He might or might not know that he could be held liable for child support.
I highly recommend you find a local group for unwed mothers. Talking with a group like this can help; listening to others' experiences and what they are doing. A local hospital could probably give you information on how to contact such a group, or even your doctor might know an organization.
I do wish you the best, and good luck.

lety · Apr 7, 2008, 07:01 AM

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You are NOT logged in. how can I get him back even with a baby on the way my mom don't want us together and it hurts because he's the love of my life. I never felt this way fir a long long time.

goodknight65 · Jun 15, 2011, 05:52 AM

He has been with you a year that is more than enough time to get over an ex ; and its kind of lame imo to break one heart to try to fix another . You just need to try to contact him and ask him what happened and how he feels about you and him and also find out what you are going to do about the baby ; it doesn't matter what he did to the ex he should be with you now if he wants to.