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    Oct 9, 2007, 01:40 PM
    DO you think its my fault
    Do you think its my fault here is my story. My common law husband is renting a farm
    But the owners live there and they always come out to site with us in the back .well I was there with my sister inlaw and her family and my kids where there too well the lady that lives there came up to me and my son and said my son throw a pop bottle in front of her
    House well I had it she is always complaining about them so me and my sister inlaw and the kids left but are husbands stayed there on the way to my house my sister inlaw thinks she started with me so I can leave because one of her friends was coming over and she likes my husband well here is the problem it was about 8.00 pm my sister call my husband on his cell to find out if they were coming home so she can go home but he answer the phone but he thought he had shut it off but it was still on so we were listening
    That lady had her friend over and I heard my husband say he wanted to f*** her well I could not hear any more but my sister in law stayed on the phone well when they got home we asked them how was the farm they said it was good but I started fighting then I left with my kids but we forgot the keys to my parents house so I turn back when got home he was outside I went inside I heard something I went outside there he was slash my tires

    He says its all my fought do you think help
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    Oct 9, 2007, 05:44 PM
    What is your fault??
    He said that to her and he slashed your tires.
    He may be letting you see a side of him that he might have been trying to hide.
    Or maybe he has decided he is no longer happy with you and wants you to get mad at him so you leave him. Guys are funny like that, they don't want to own up to what they really want and will turn it around so you have to deal with it.
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    Oct 9, 2007, 07:04 PM
    He's a butt hole. How is it your fault that he was most likely cheating? Did he pay for your tires? He sounds like a loser. Be glad you are out of there, and stay gone. Don't go back.
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    Oct 10, 2007, 02:56 AM
    No he never paid to fix them . We live in the same house but are not talking or sleeping in the same room I can't believe he never said sorry he still says it is my fault.I just don't no why? I guess he is a big hole
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    Oct 10, 2007, 07:12 AM
    From your other posts I gather how unhappy you are, and this guy is not for you. He is a butt hole to the max, and your better off away from him.
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    Oct 10, 2007, 08:02 AM
    Your right I am very unhappy
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    Oct 10, 2007, 08:04 AM
    Why are you still living with this guy?
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