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    Oct 4, 2007, 10:50 AM
    Breaking up with him? Is it impossiable?
    I am in need of help!! My Boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and a half and I love him so much and I don't know what I would do with out him... but.. I think I am going to break up with him. I hate his job, he works late all the time and he works early all the time he goes away overnight and the other day he worked 34 hours straight! And he is way to young for that. And he knows I hate when he works late and so many hours but he tells me its part of his life to just get over it. And I cant. Now he tells me he is going to North Carolina next week. And when we are married I don't want him working all the time. Its not like he NEEDS the money. And we get into stupid arguments all the time. I just think for now it might be better to just hold off and take a break... and I mean break up. But I can't stand the thought of him getting another girl. (which I doubt he would for a while) but even looking at them I am so insecure about everything and I get jealous very easily. I just don't know what I would do if we broke up. I mean we are talking about getting married!! We see each other every night of the week and together all day on weekends and it would be a big change with out him in my life and I don't want to go insane but I think I would with out him. I mean I love him and I can't stand the thought of not being with him. But I think it would be better to break up than to go on living like this. I just don't know how I will get over him. I don't want to cry all the time.:( please someone give me advice. I have broken up with him before but I always give in because I am afraid something will happen to him and I hate to see him cry. UGH! I just don't know what to do... help please...
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    Oct 26, 2007, 10:16 PM
    You love him right? You are the luckys girl in the world you have a man that willing to work his hardst until his hands bleeds and every girl in this world would wish to have a man like that... to start a good life you have to work hard and maybe his getting you that ring and paying it off with cash all at once... and at least he's coming home every night to the girl he's love and think the world of you, and if you think about it he's doing it for you?. But if you miss him that bad then you shuold take to him and tell him to take a day off here and there?
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    Oct 26, 2007, 10:38 PM
    Yeah working hard is nice... but 34 hours straight? Obsessive much? Remember, he also has to work at YOUR relationship. Relationships take work, how are you two going to stay close if he's gone all the time? You've bee compromising and if he's unwilling to and tells you to "just get over it" then screw him, that's not how relationships work.
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    Oct 26, 2007, 10:46 PM
    You have to decide if you are willling to put up with the way he works and the fact tha he doesn't care how you feel. Sometimes love isn't enough, especially if you are unhappy. This is something only you know the answer to.
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    Oct 27, 2007, 12:06 AM
    How many days dose he work out of the week?
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    Oct 27, 2007, 12:06 AM
    How many days dose he work out of the week?
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